You’re a wedding professional. It’s your job to look after everyone else.

But who is looking after YOU?

You Don’t Need a Couch—You Need a Coach!

Break free from the cycle of burnout with bold, transformative coaching that goes beyond quick fixes. Our program empowers wedding planners like you with the mindset and tools to set boundaries, reclaim your time, and transform both your career and your life.

You wish you felt as poised and polished as Jennifer Lopez, orchestrating wedding magic from her headset with the perfect low bun and ridiculously high heels.

But let's be real—being a wedding planner is not for the faint of heart. You're often a sweaty mess during setup and hyper-aware, if not overwhelmed, by the stress of managing people's emotions all the time. After all, there aren't any do-overs.

Yet you excel at what you do because you're a perfectionist, part-time romantic, and thrive on the adrenaline that comes from seeing it all come together. You give the very best of yourself to your couples, leaving very little for those you love.

It’s time to start creating room for yourself and your future.

Better Than Therapy is for you.

If you’re a stressed-out wedding planner and the very idea of making one more decision at the end of the day will send you over the brink...

Better Than Therapy is a one-of-a-kind coaching program designed by a wedding planner for wedding planners. It helps you identify where you are. Where you want to be. And how you're going to get there. You get to regain control of your life, on your terms, so you can create a frickin' awesome business that fuels your success and the freedom to design a life you love.

The tools to cope with all the crazies that are never going to change. So you can gain more of what your heart craves…

Time

Because your loved ones barely get a text from you during wedding season when you’re lost to your clients, planning multiple events, and saying yes to every 11th-hour request. We support you with strategies for setting boundaries and finding balance.

Money

You want to level up your value, but you know it comes at a cost. You deserve to grow your business in ways that feel fabulous. We help you navigate your mindset to realize your worth, nip scope creep in the bud, and set extraordinary goals for yourself.

Imagination

Wouldn’t it be amazing if you had time to create? Right now, you’re exhausted thinking about magic fixes for guest list conflicts and missing bouquets. We guide you in managing relationships—with clients, your partner, and yourself—and your emotional responses in sticky moments.

If you do nothing, nothing will change. You'll keep making the same mistakes because you have the best intentions but no follow-through.

Years ago, when I hit rock bottom, I chose to take control of my thoughts through life coaching. Without those tools, I wouldn't still be a wedding planner.

Think about it. Nothing will change until you put yourself first. When you invest time in understanding your thoughts and emotions, you can approach your work with greater clarity and confidence. 

By having a greater sense of self awareness, you show up differently. You become extraordinary. You become a better wedding planner. Your business will thrive. And so will you.  



In my 25+ years of wedding planning, I've been belittled and threatened, dealt with a no-show bride, angry mothers, and even hurricanes. Why didn't I stand up for myself? Because it was their day.

But here's the truth: self-preservation is crucial. It's okay to hit pause, put on the oxygen mask, and take a moment for yourself. Yes, you really do need to take a hot minute! 

I'm ready for change!

When you’re ready, there’s a coaching style here just for you!

Introducing the Better Than Therapy framework

"First Look" — Coaching Sessions

Whether it’s one or several frustrating situations holding you back and bringing your sanity into question, we’ll spend 3 weeks breaking it down, understanding and rethinking your thoughts. These ah-ha moments are priceless. Let’s have it!

+ 3 one-to-one coaching sessions

+ Recorded video and follow-up summary email

What it includes:

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"I Do" — Private 1:1 Coaching

When you need someone to walk with you, back you up, talk you down, and give it to you straight when you start slipping into habits that lead to overwhelm. It’s all designed to get you to a life you love. 

What it includes:

This is my kind of therapy

"Let's Celebrate" — Group Coaching

Espresso Martini anyone? Some of us thrive in a group atmosphere. Whether you’re a little shy or the life of the party, connect and get coaching with other wedding planners on the same journey. Group coaching is for you.

What it includes:

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"Nikki gave me practical tools to manage stress and create healthy boundaries with clients so that my friends and family get the best of me as well!"

"Working with Nikki over these last few years has been irreplaceable! As wedding planners, we just keep going without thinking it will take a toll on us both physically and emotionally. Nikki was brilliant at getting me to realize that while I can do it, I probably shouldn't always push myself to that level. Sometimes saying "no" is positive for both me and my client as working at a level that will undoubtedly end in burnout and that is not good for anyone."

"Her perspective and how to best serve our clients while taking care of ourselves is something that has been missing in the planning industry."

"Nikki has the experience to really know what the job requires but the knowledge to help you use some very simple tools to manage the stress of the job. The ability to break down a task in a way that doesn't just benefit the client but also your well being is a skill that can be used across all high stress jobs."

"She is a calming presence in the midst of chaos, a rare and invaluable gift in this industry."

"Nikki’s depth of knowledge, built on decades of experience, is unmatched and she shares it with such generosity and insight. She has a way of offering advice that is both strategic and heartfelt, always with the goal of uplifting those around her. If you’re a wedding planner looking to elevate your business, whether you’re just starting out or fine-tuning your expertise, there is no better person to learn from. Nikki’s wisdom, support, and passion for this industry are truly one of a kind, and I cannot recommend her enough."

—Kathleen

— Emily

—Katie

Thoughts we know to be true

You don't need to binge-watch another Netflix series

You don't need to buy yet another pair of shoes

You don't need to constantly snack from the fridge

You don’t need to scroll for hours on Instagram

and you certainly don't need another sales or marketing program…

What you need is better than therapy.

The first step toward growth is saying YES to yourself.

Step one

Set up a strategy call. No strings attached! Let’s get you out of your rut and back in touch with what’s important to you.

Step two

Receive a Zoom link and an easy questionnaire to share what you’d like help with.

Step three

On the call, we’ll discuss the different ways we can work together. 

How to apply:

Step four

After the paperwork has been completed, you'll receive a personalized coaching schedule that starts as soon as it works for you. Let’s go!

Apply now

Is that a yes? Or is that a YES?

As a former luxury wedding planner, I know how tough it is to put yourself first. With this in mind, I’d love to offer you a free session. Before you make an investment, we can chat about Better Than Therapy, your expectations, and which coaching option you’d like to explore.

Book your free strategy session

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